Dr. Lori Beth Bisbey Breaks Down Shifting Sexual Norms for Adults Over 50
Dr. Lori Beth Bisbey is highlighting a clear shift in how adults over 50 approach sex, intimacy and personal wellbeing — pointing to a more open, informed and active landscape than in previous decades.
The clinical psychologist and accredited GSRD therapist says both her practice and broader public conversation reflect a growing willingness to talk about topics that were once avoided.
What’s Changing After 50
Bisbey identifies several trends shaping modern conversations around later-life intimacy:
- More open discussion of pleasure and desire
- Increased awareness of menopause and hormonal changes
- Greater focus on male sexual health post-50
- A stronger expectation of continued sexual activity throughout life
These conversations are no longer happening quietly — they’re becoming part of mainstream dialogue.
A Shift Toward Advocacy and Ownership
Bisbey points to a growing sense of personal agency, especially among women:
Women are advocating for their pleasure and seeking the hormonal support needed to maintain a satisfying sex life.
At the same time, conversations around:
- Non-monogamy
- Kink
- Alternative relationship structures
are becoming more normalized and less stigmatized among older adults.
Rising Activity, New Challenges
One of the more notable developments is the increase in sexual activity among older populations — including those over 65.
Bisbey notes:
More over 65’s are engaging in sexual activity and specifically in casual sex than ever before. This is great news (though the infection rate is not).
This rise has also led to increased awareness around sexual health risks, particularly STI rates in older demographics.
A Growing Demand for Guidance
Bisbey says she is seeing a clear increase in older clients seeking support:
“I am consulted more by over 60’s than I was 10 years ago — many of whom are embracing their desires for the first time openly and seeking partners to share them with.”
The shift isn’t just behavioral.
It’s emotional and psychological — people are actively exploring identity, connection and fulfillment later in life.
Why This Matters Now
This change reflects a broader cultural movement:
- Aging is no longer tied to sexual decline
- Intimacy is being reframed as a lifelong experience
- Conversations are becoming more direct, informed and honest
The result is a generation redefining what relationships and sexuality look like beyond midlife.
Learn More
- Official Site: DrLoriBethbisbey.com
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